I had a different post in mind for today, but our computer isn't behaving itself and won't let me download pictures from our camera. Thus, I'm going to hit ya with a post I was going to put up later this week. Since it's the beginning of a new year I thought I'd give you some updates as to what our life is like at the start of 2014 and also what some of my hopes are for the upcoming months ahead.
First, Carter! He really hit three running. His language/speech is growing and improving everyday! I can understand about 90% of what he says which is on target for his age and what his main caregiver should be able to understand. Is his speech perfect? No, of course not, but he has come leaps and bounds. He has not been reevaluated since he was almost two and his pediatrician told us at this point he thinks Carter is doing well and most likely won't need speech therapy. We're going to keep an eye on it, but we are really happy with his progress.
He's napping only about half of the time now and I'm actually good with that. In fact, I'd prefer him not to nap at all anymore because he goes to bed earlier and easier when he doesn't. However, the naps still come in handy (it's the only reason I'm able to write this right now!). And as for him being a HSC (highly sensitive child), Russ and I are starting to get the hang of how to best parent him. We are more easily able to see when he is truly upset or when he is unsure and needs us to give him a little push to try something that we are 99% sure he'll enjoy if he gives it a chance. It's a learning experience for all three of us, but as we gain more knowledge it becomes less difficult (notice I didn't say easy). He's definitely at a very fun age and it's always a joy to see him grow more and more into his own person. One of my favorite things about him is his sense of humor! He's kind of goofy (life me) so he can always make me laugh.
Next, I wanted to give you an update on baby #2. After over a year of trying on our own and then 4 rounds of Clomid/9 months, we still are not pregnant. It's been an emotional journey to say the least and one that is not yet over. Our next step at this point is that I am going to start seeing a Reproductive Endocrinologist (RE). I am waiting for the office to call me back and hopefully I will have an appointment this month. I will probably have to go through testing again, but I think this is going to be a really great decision as I'll be able to receive more monitored care. When we started trying for our second little angel I honestly thought it would be easier than with Carter (we tried for 5 months on our own and then had 3 rounds/6 months of medicated cycles). But when I look at Carter it gives me renewed hope because it is possible. I know with all of my heart 2014 will be the year I get pregnant.
A couple other things going on: I'm going to get a little more organized with homeschooling activities for Carter. Russ and I have decided we aren't sending him to preschool so this is going to be the start of our homeschooling journey. We are still planning to sign him up for some Mommy & Me type classes (and maybe dance, too!), but he won't be going to preschool. I know there is some backlash when it comes to homeschooling, but we have done our research and feel that this is what is best for our family at this time.
2014 is also going to see some more projects completed around the house! We have 2 bathrooms, our master bedroom and laundry room left and then the house will be painted from top to bottom! We also want to install the wood flooring throughout the rest of the downstairs. And I have to mention ceiling fans! We MUST get those installed before next summer! We've been planning to do this for the past few years but it's one of those things that gets pushed aside when other necessities arise.
So that's just a brief update on our life. For me personally, I am going to try to spend a little more time attending classes at Common Ground Spiritual Center as that is something I've really missed. It can be hard for me to leave Carter as everyone leads busy lives (he is only babysat by family), but I think it's important once in a while. I'm going into 2014 with a renewed sense of self, also. Last year there were some moments that were not my finest, but I know who I really am at the core of my being and that is a kind, loving and giving person. No one can tell me otherwise. We are all learning here on "Earth School" and I'd be remiss to say I know all there is to know; but I love, forgive and let go to the best of my ability. I wish this for everyone because to hold onto anger, jealousy or even hate is no way to live this life we have all been gifted with.
With all of that said, I welcome 2014 because I know it is going to be a game changer! My little boy is growing up so fast, my relationship with Russ is stronger than ever and there is a tiny soul making it's way to our family. It doesn't get more exciting than that!
Peace, love and happiness to all of you in 2014!
